Do women like getting rimmed as much as gay guys like it?

Analingus – aka rimming – can be a lot of fun to give and receive. As long as you have trust, consent and communication while doing it, it can be super enjoyable for any/all genders. We’ve already explored why these women enjoy rimming their boyfriends, but what’s it like to receive analingus as a woman?

1. “The feeling itself is whatever, but what turns me on is my boyfriend losing his mind over my ass.”

2. “Amazing! It’s not as mind blowing as vaginal oral, but it’s a completely different feeling.”

3. “My partner’s beard is always a bit scratchy down there, and the sensation is ok but not mind blowing, not as nice as regular oral. I’d be ok without it in my life, but god damn he is hard as a rock afterwards, so whatever it’s doing for him is totally worth it.”

Girls' Marnie gets a rim-job in the first episode of season 4

5. “I’ve only had one guy truly eat my ass, and he was absolutely ridiculously into it. It started as an ass massage (also highly recommended) and I guess he just wanted more and went for it. He was VERY VERY GOOD AT IT. I am almost afraid to try it with anyone else for fear they won’t be able to live up to the pleasure standard he set. He had a good mix of gentle licks and applying more pressure, never jamming it in there though. He also got right in there with his lips too for more sensual variety, plus fingering my clit/vulva at the same time. I think I enjoyed that he went to town on my ass without ever trying to get inside it, which I am not sure I am interested in. It felt very safe and oddly comfortable!’

“Feels like a slug trying to crawl into your butthole”

6. “It felt really good but I was also anxious ’cause I kept being like, ‘Is he enjoying this though?’”

7. “I was drunk and horny, [we] showered together, got all prepared… and it pretty much sobered me up and turned me off almost immediately. Big let down, lol. I realised in that moment there’s a plethora of other body parts that feel better being licked than that one.”

8. “Meh. Feels like a slug trying to crawl into your butthole. I don’t care for it.”

9. “Simply fucking incredible. Better than oral, better than sex. My ex and I talked about it before he wanted to try it. I thought it was gross and didn’t think it would feel good. At some point we were fooling around and he was eating me out while I was face down on the bed with my butt kinda sticking out a bit. Well he went from front to back and then just spent some time there. He just kinda licked and kissed softly. And his hands would be on my ass too, caressing. I felt paralyzed, couldn’t move a muscle, and just lay there quietly, feeling every stroke of his tongue on my bum. I’m sopping wet afterwards and nothing gets me more relaxed and ready for sex than that. It’s like muscles I don’t know I had get relaxed and I feel like I’m an overcooked spaghetti. I fucking love it.”

“If you’ve never done it, at least give it a try”

10. “Such a turn on ! If you like oral, then it’s nice to have someone go down on you all the way and all over. Just make sure you’re clean (why wouldn’t you be) so bacteria isn’t transferred from your ass to your vagina or urethra.”

11. “My goodness, it is so good! I wish there were less awkward ways to bring it up with new partners… If you’ve never done it, at least give it a try! (It won’t hurt or anything!)”

12. “Tedious. I’m not sexually sensitive in that area, so it’s boring. I can’t see my partner enjoying himself, so I’m alienated by the whole process. The positioning is uncomfortable, and it would be outright rude to use the time to do my nails or read a book or get some work done or anything else that I have to do and want to do. And, on top of that, because of the dynamics of the situation (my partner is putting his mouth on my yucky bits) it also sounds hideously unappreciative for me to complain about the tedium. So the additional emotional labour of that dynamic gives me a feeling of, ‘Ugh, not this again’.”

13. “It kind of had a nice, warm, and wet massage feeling to it. Wasn’t too exciting and doesn’t feel simulating for me but the fact that my boyfriend loved licking it turned me on so much and made me feel sexy and confident.”